Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder….

Yeah, as obvious as it can be, you can see
that I haven’t been writing like for ages. Which actually lead me to steal one
my friends’ blog title. The reason being… we shared the same problem…. difficulty
in finding or should I say setting our own goal in life… what actually
constitutes a “goal”? Something related to your career or personal life? About
how much money you should be making by the time you’re 40? That you are married
and have 2 kids by the time you’re 35? And how far ahead the goal should be? 5
years? 10 years? 20 years?

For me, the answer is easy. It has always
been happiness… which comes to the question of how do you define happiness? Happiness
is when you are surrounded with people who truly love you, no matter who you
are… a husband that loves you more than you love yourself, your own kids who
you can spoil and be proud of, a lovely simple home with a small garden outside…
close friends who can never abandon you when things go wrong… and money isn’t
everything. It is not the question of does everyone knows what their goal is but
whether it is achievable? Sometimes, it can be seen as simple and so easy but I
find myself struggling and questioning every single day… “what is wrong with
me?”… is this considered as a failure? Am I a loser?

And sometimes you just can’t do much about it but to give in… cause life goes on and you just have to deal with it

… make the best out of it… never give up, never surrender!

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